Overcoming the Challenges No One Expects But Everyone Experiences
Carey Nieuwhof’s latest book helps readers grow in self-awareness
Next year, I turn 50. I am neither the bright-eyed, bushy-tailed 20-something I used to be, nor the worn-out old man yelling, “Get off my lawn!” that I sometimes fear becoming. Instead, I am in between.
In between is a weird place to be. You’re neither where you started nor where you’re going. You’ve come a long way, but you’ve still got a long way to go. The journey has given you road-tested experience, but that experience has dulled your wariness of what’s just around the corner.
So, when trouble strikes, you don’t see it coming. Carey Nieuwhof did not write his book, Didn’t See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences, for middle-agers like me, even though he’s middle-aged like me. Nor did Nieuwhof write it solely for pastors or other Christians, even though he’s a Christian pastor.
Carey Nieuwhof’s advice is biblically grounded, eminently practical and winsomely delivered.
Instead, Nieuwhof wrote Didn’t See It Coming for anyone who wants to live free of cynicism, moral compromise, disconnection from others, irrelevance to others, pride, burnout, or a general feeling of emptiness. Those are the “7 greatest challenges that no one expects and everyone experiences,” as the book’s subtitle puts it.
If you’re young, this book will help you proactively keep a fresh, hopeful perspective on life, work and ministry. If you didn’t see it coming — it being one of those seven horribles — this book will help you recognize where you went wrong and how to get back on the right path. And if you’re in between, like me, it will help you make mid-course corrections so that your experience and hopefulness can be mutually enriching. Throughout the book, Nieuwhof’s advice is biblically grounded, eminently practical and winsomely delivered.
I’ll leave you with this quote, which expresses the key insight of Didn’t See It Coming: “Simply put, self-awareness coupled with a close walk with God will [help you see it coming every time]. When you are intimately in touch with your own emotions and inclinations and deeply knowledgeable about the ways of God, you’ll have a much greater chance of seeing it — whatever it is. Self-aware people have a conscious knowledge of their motives, desires, feelings, and character. They are also in tune with how their actions affect others. The more self-aware you are, the more likely you are to see it coming.”
Carey Nieuwhof, Didn’t See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences (Colorado Springs, CO: WaterBrook, 2018).
See also the recent Influence Podcast featuring Carey Nieuwhof.