I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16).

Psychologists call the kids you minister to “digital natives.” This generation will never know a world that isn’t ruled by screens, social media and online content. The culture is quickly outgrowing parents, and their children are right in the middle of it.

To successfully minister to the families in your church, you must become an Internet safety resource for them. Here are some steps you can take to become a tech and media expert for the parents of the children in your kids’ ministry.

1. Educate Yourself
Research some accountability software and filtering options, and start reading their blogs. Sites like NetNanny.com and Accountable2You.com have good resources to help you learn why their products are necessary and how they can help families.

Look up dangerous apps lists and videos or podcasts about family tech safety. These resources are out there, and once you’ve educated yourself, you can recommend them to parents. Remember that you don’t have to know everything about the topic to be the expert; you just have to know more than the people you’re talking to.

2. Lead by Example
You should be practicing healthy use of the Internet, social media, gaming, movie and video streaming. Have filters and accountability set up on your own devices before you start recommending that parents do it for their children.

When I do workshops, I always promote digital safety products that I use or have set up for others myself. This not only sets me up as an example to the families I minister to, but it allows me to better understand the software I am promoting so I can give the right information.

3. Set Standards within Your Ministry
You already have rules for everything you do. It’s great to have these standards because it makes it completely obvious what your ministry stands for. The standards you set for tech use in your services are equally important. Are phones and tablets allowed for use as a Bible? Do they need to be kept in bags or pockets the entire service?

This generation will never know a world that isn’t ruled by screens, social media and online content.

Whatever you decide, make it publicly known that you have standards for tech use in your services. This will not only help you avoid confusion when a child brings a phone into your service, but it sets an example since you want families to set obvious standards in their homes as well.

4. Host Learning Opportunities for Parents
One of the smartest things you can do to start a culture of digital safety in your church is hosting a learning event. Tech workshops can go a long way toward sparking initial interest in parents for setting better digital boundaries. The focused time given to learning about protecting their children will allow moms and dads not only to learn methods, but also gain confidence that they can handle the necessary changes.

You can bring in someone, show videos on the topic, or make the event focus on providing resources. Whatever method you use, it is critical that you begin the conversation with parents about digital safety, because if you don’t start it, they won’t bring it up until something bad has already happened.

5. Make Resources Readily Available to Parents
You can make rules and standards for your ministry, and children may comply while they are under your care. It is impossible to make those rules follow the kids home. That’s why it is important to provide parents with the tools they need to protect their children.

Use your newsletters, calendars and other updates to include a tech-safety section. Use regular events that will educate and update parents on what protections are available and what they’ll need. Keep fliers and other tech safety software resources available at your check-in counter, information booth and other areas.

Most companies that make tech safety software will send you free promotional materials if you email and ask. Use these resources to promote Internet safety to families.

Now Go Public
As you take these steps to become an Internet safety resource for parents, take every opportunity to let parents know you’re available to them. I think the topic of Internet and digital safety is of paramount importance — so much so that I have made it my full-time ministry focus.

I believe that if you take the time to become a tech resource for parents, you will be impacting those in your church and in your entire community by answering questions that literally every family is asking.

This article originally appeared on the Healthy Church Kids blog and is adapted with permission.